About Me What I Work With How I Work Fees Blog Begin Here

Specialty

Individual therapy for
relationship patterns.

This isn't couples therapy. It's working on you — the way you attach, the patterns that keep showing up, and what it would look like to show up differently in the relationships that matter most.

Begin Here

What Brings People Here

The same patterns
in different relationships.

A lot of people come to individual therapy for relationship issues not because their relationship is in crisis, but because they keep noticing the same things in themselves — the way they shut down in conflict, or can't stop trying to fix things, or feel anxious when someone doesn't respond quickly, or lose themselves in relationships without quite realizing it.

These patterns usually have deep roots. They were adaptive at some point — they made sense given the relationships and environment you grew up in. The work is about understanding where they came from, and developing the capacity to choose differently.

You can do this work whether you're single, partnered, navigating family dynamics, or processing a relationship that ended.

Anxious attachment — fear of abandonment, difficulty trusting, reassurance-seeking
Avoidant patterns — shutting down emotionally, needing excessive independence, distancing when things get close
People-pleasing and difficulty knowing or expressing your own needs
Repetitive conflict dynamics — the same fight, different day, different relationship
Difficulty with intimacy, vulnerability, or letting people in
Processing a painful relationship ending, betrayal, or loss of trust

How I Work With This

The relationship in this room
is part of the work.

One of the most powerful things about therapy is that the relationship between therapist and client becomes its own laboratory. The patterns you bring to other relationships will show up here too — and we can work with them in real time, in a safe context.

I work in a relational, depth-oriented way. We'll look at your attachment history, the patterns that have formed over time, and what underlies them. I'll be direct and warm with you — and I'll notice things, name them, and invite you to look at them honestly.

The goal isn't to make you someone who doesn't have needs or fears in relationships. It's to give you more freedom in how you respond to them. Sessions are virtual throughout California and Massachusetts.

Get Started

You can learn to
relate differently.

I offer a free 20-minute consultation. A chance to talk, ask questions, and see if working together feels right.

Request a Consultation